Every single family has a story, a special rhythm, and a design given to us by God. In Function & Dysfunctional Families: How the Family System Works, Dr. Mike looks at how our homes operate. Family life can feel messy and confusing, but it actually follows very predictable patterns. God made the family to be a safe place filled with love and structure. However, because of human mistakes and sin, that good design can get twisted into a painful mess.

This guide connects daily family struggles with the truth of the Bible. It is written in simple, everyday language so that anyone can understand it, whether you go to church or not. It’s designed to look closely at the healthy roles that give a good family its strength, and to talk about why family members naturally fight against change, even when change is a good thing. Last but not least, we will also talk about the “scapegoat” and the “black sheep.” These are the family members who seem to get all the negative attention and carry the heavy weight for everyone else.

Whether you want to heal from past hurts, build a happier home, or just understand the people you love, this guide will help you see your family with fresh eyes, kinder hearts, and true hope from God.